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so i wont be posting at friendster anymore…thankss

hmm..nothing berkaitan dgn tajuk diatas..kecuali awal nyer..the garden…so amik perhatian..and take note…ada shopping complex baru nama nyer the garden kat kl..lg specific..kat mid valley…sebelah mid valley…haihh…sama panjang gak mcm mid valley…somehow…interior dia ada kelainan…cerah…more natural light coming inside..then ada live band..tp time pergi arituh…ada live piano ajer…and mcm biasa…semua pakat nak tgk..mcm tak nah tgk b4…so sempat aku snap few pictures to share..

and last one..since tak mampu beli benda kat butik butik…

find out when reading a magazine..but couldn’t recall what the title of the magazine..but found out to be a good article to share with my fellow men…

Sunday morning…what a lovely day to be..for not being at work make it more lovely…but then..there still n going work need to look into..so while burning some fuse in my brain go thru the coding..i surf up to look for new and fresh sound to play while doing my work…while browsing and searching for songs…i found a song from group i rarely heard anymore this day…

semesti nya project pop…

geh geh geh geh..

so i  found out there are new album calling it six-on-six six - a - six..so one of the featured song are Dugem vs Metal…so i download it..once i play it..damn i laugh like hell…they never failed to give sort of enjoyment u can’t get from any other song or groups…they are really unique..hell i don’t care if people want to say they stupid or just playing dumb..but hey..???have u listen to their songs and the lyrics…???

so here i attached the lycris of the song…and link for you tube video…damn u really need to watch the video..

Project Pop - Dugem vs Metal

Project Pop - Dugem vs Metal

Saper kata movie tak kasi pengajaran moral..???contoh nyer movie reservoir dog…ini antara movie movie yg sesuai ditonton ketika anda meningkat remaja…hahahha…diingatkan…bukan untuk tontonan keluarga…

Never trust anyone

A lot of guys have mental deficiencies when it comes to trust — most of us are guilty of it over a great pair of gazongas.
Any guy with a good head on his shoulders knows not to tell a woman
anything of importance, but even these guys can get sucker-punched by a
buddy who seems like a stand-up guy. Here’s one rule of thumb to
follow: Never fall for a good story, a friendly face or a free drink.
Even if a guy is bleeding to death on the floor for the cause, that
doesn’t mean he’s honest — it might just mean he’s bleeding.

Repay debts

Those who will lay it on the line for you
deserve to be recognized. Even more so, those guys that get pinched and
keep their mouth shut should be treated like Super Bowl MVPs. Loyalty is
nearly impossible to replace, especially with all the get-rich-quick
scabs growing up today. When a guy takes one for the team, he will
suffer while your world keeps moving. But when the time comes for him
to get back on board, welcome him back with open arms. The ultimate
slap in the face for a guy who believes in something is to be
forgotten. It’s also the best way to make a vitriolic enemy.    

Tell a good story

Learning to tell a story can help you
move up in the world. First of all, it makes you less boring, and
second, it shows that you can be a good wingman when a buddy has an
extra piece of ass to go around. You don’t have to be the world’s
greatest conversationalist, but don’t be a passive deadbeat who can
only utter grunts and snorts while he shovels food in his craw and
scares the children. Being good company comes naturally for some people
and doesn’t for others. But even if you are a grumpy prick, that
doesn’t mean you have to be one at dinner too.

Keep your cool

When you’re in a tight spot and feeling nervous about it, act cool and go about your business. The example in this mob movie
has a dope-toting guy staring down a German shepherd police dog. As
soon as you start sweating bullets and acting strange, you look
suspicious and invite trouble. This works as well for staying out of
trouble as it does for starting trouble. If you are about to steal
someone’s purse, you don’t start getting jittery and jellylike around
them — you take it easy so that Grandma doesn’t sense the coming
assault. 

Know when to quit

Once the egg breaks, drop it. Don’t
try and put it back together again. Time is precious, so salvage what
you can and get out. What’s nice about life
is that you can always lie and act like it never happened. Lying is
life’s ace in the hole. Call it cut-and-run, call it retreat –
anything is better than calling from jail. You don’t want to be the one
holding the bag at the rendezvous point when no one else is coming. It’s one thing to be loyal and another to be a sucker.   

Tip

No one likes to tip, but for some reason the world decided that for one or two jobs, we pay extra money
based on service. But I’ve noticed a lot of bad service lately and I’m
not sure that you need to always give 15%. The wait staff occasionally
forgets the reason that tipping exists. In general, you should tip
because servers deal with a lot of people and nobody likes that. It’s a
terrible job, but at least at the end of the day, with the tips, they
can have some cash in hand to buy alcohol, cigarettes and drugs. How
else would they make it through each shift?

article was picked up from AskMen.com

haaa…

u think ur life sux..??

or..

u think don’t deserve everything happened to u..??

or

u think ur friends don’t care..??

or

u think the world are being hard on u..??

or

u think u in the worst situation and place people will ever be..??

or

u think ur team sux..??

or

u just think that ur PM even more sux..??

or

whatever u think…seriously who care rite..but there is people out there that are care..and one of them are your family and friends..and as a friend…i want to show to you that there is situation more worse then you ever think..

seriously u don’t want to be in this situation…hahhahah…just a funny picture i want to share with the rest of u…hope it help to cheer up someone…

Green Day - Nice Guys Finish Last

Nice guys finish last.
You’re running out of gas.

Your sympathy will get you left behind.
Sometimes you’re at your best, when you feel the worst.
Do you feel washed up, like piss going down the drain

Pressure cooker pick my brain and tell me I’m insane.
I’m so fucking happy I could cry.

Every joke can have its truth and now the joke’s on you.
I never knew you were such a funny guy.

Oh nice guys finish last, when you are the outcast.
Don’t pat yourself on the back you might break your spine.

Living on command.
You’re shaking lots of hands.
Kissing up and bleeding all your trust, taking what you need.
Bite the hand that feeds.
You lose your memory and you got no shame.

I don’t know there is such a song…so after finding the song…i found an article..cannot say article…it is rather more to the an expression of anger and frustration…

quoted from here .

It’s amazing that assholes can get girls.  Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing.  They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love.  

IT’S A CHARADE.  

They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after.  Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the assholeis really nice inside.  The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes.  She gets upset and goes to thenice guy to complain about the asshole.  But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins.  She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.  Girls are idiots.  They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along.  He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that.  However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another.  They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend.  

But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve.  He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along.  The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keepslistening.  Since girls get attached to things thatpay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend.  A FRIEND.  They don’t say, “Oh he’s hot” or “I want to have his children” about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support.  When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the asshole.  The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action.  I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action…  I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department.  

Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with.  The women wonder, “Why isn’t he paying attention to me?” so they explore why.  They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole.  They startto get easier with each attempt to get closer.  The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass”.  It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an asshole.

Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a “listener” you can’t turn back.  The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen.  Once you realizethat you are a “listener” you cant do anything aboutit… just pack up and close shop.  There is no way you will get into her pants… ever.  There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.  It just doesn’t worklike that.  The girl wont “come to her senses” and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies… instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you.  Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world.  Right.  They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!!  Girls aren’t looking for nice guys… they say they are but they’re not.  They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect asshole.

All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft.  To all thegirls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look next to you.  The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for.  He is what you want your asshole to be like.  He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all.

So after reading this Mr. Nice guy..don't be depressed and demotivated the world still need you..you doing a big charity to the others..and you did it for no charge at all..

"It always happen when you least expect it?"

ever heard of that phrase ? i think that what we can say best to the Mr. Nice Guy...just live your life to fullest...the moments will come sooner or later..

so Mr. Nice Guy..be smart..be a Smart Mr. Nice Guy..not the Dumb Mr. Nice Guy..and sure you will find yournice girl..

a quick one b4 go to work…i got this while do some blog hopping…hihih…

Tree

People call me "Tree".

I had dated 5 girls when I was in Pre-U. There is one girl who I love alot but never dared to go after. She didn’t have a pretty face, good figure or an outstanding charm. She was just a very ordinary girl. I liked her. I really liked her. I liked her innocence, her frankness, her intelligence and her fragility. Reason for not going after her was that I felt somebody so ordinary like her was not a good match for me. I was also afraid that after we were together all the feelings would vanish. I was also afraid other’s gossip would hurt her.

I felt that if she were my girl, she’d be mine ultimately & I didn’t have to give up everything just for her. The last reason, made her accompanying me for 3 years. She watched me chase other girls, and I have made her heart cry for 3 years. She was a good actor, and me a demanding director. When I kissed my second girlfriend, she bumped into us. She was embarrassed but smiled & said, "Go on!" before running off.The next day, her eyes were swollen like a walnut. I did not want to know what caused her to cry. Later that day, I returned from soccer training to get something & watched her cry in the classroom for an hour or so. My fourth girlfriend did not like her.There was once when both of them quarreled. I know that based on her character she is not the type that will start the quarrel. However, I still sided my girlfriend. I shouted at her & ignored her feelings and walked off with my girlfriend. The next day, she was laughing & joking with me like nothing happened. I know she was hurt but she did not know deep down inside I was hurt too.

When I broke up with my fifth girlfriend, I asked her out. Later that day, I told her I had something to tell her. I told her about my breakup.Coincidentally, she has something to tell me too, about her getting together. I knew who the person was. His pursuit for her had been the talk of the School. I did not show her my heartache, just smiles & best wishes.Once I reached home, I could not breathe. Tears rolled & I broke down. How many times have I seen her cry for the man who did not acknowledge her presence?

During graduation, I read a SMS in my hp. It said, "Leaf’s departure is because of Wind’s pursuit. Or because Tree didn’t ask her to stay"

Leaf

People call me Leaf.

During the 3 years of Pre-U, I was on very close terms with a guy as buddy kind. However, when he had his first girlfriend, I learnt a feeling I never should have learnt - Jealousy. Sourness to the extreme limit. They were only together for 2 months. When they broke up, I hid my happiness. But after a month, he got together with another girl.

I liked him & I know he liked me. But why won’t he pursue me? Since he loves me why he didn’t he make the first move? Whenever he had a new girlfriend, my heart would hurt. After some time, I began to suspect that this was one-sided love. If he didn’t like me, why did he treat me so well? It’s beyond what you will normally do for a friend. I know his likes, his habits.But his feelings towards me I can never figure out. You can’t expect me a girl, to ask him. Despite that, I still wanted to be by his side. Care for him, accompany him, and love him. Hoping that one day, he will come to love me. Because of this, I waited for him. Sometimes, I wondered if I should continue waiting. The pain, the dilemma accompanied me for 3 years.

At the end of my 3rd year, a junior pursues me. Everyday he pursues me. He’s like the cool & gentle wind, trying to blow off a leaf from a tree. In the end, I realized that I wanted to give this wind a small footing in my heart. I know the wind will bring the leaf to a better land. Finally, leaf left the tree, but the tree only smiled & didn’t ask me to stay.

Leaf’s departure is because of Wind’s pursuit. Or cause Tree didn’t ask her to stay.

Wind

Because I like a girl called leaf. Because she’s so dependent on tree, so I have to be a gust of wind. A wind that will blow her away. When I first met her, it was 1 month after I was transferred to this new school. I saw a petite person looking at my seniors & me playing soccer. During ECA time, she will always be sitting there. Be it alone or with her friends, looking at him. When he talks with girls, there’s jealousy in her eyes. When he looked at her, there’s a smile in her eyes. Looking at her became my habit. Just like, she likes to look at him.

One day, she didn’t appear. I felt something missing. I can’t explain the feeling except it’s a kind of uneasiness. The senior was also not there as well. I went to their classroom, hid outside and saw my senior scolding her. Tears were in her eyes while he left. The next day, I saw her at her usual place, looking at him. I walked over and smiled to her. Took out a note & gave to her. She was surprised. She looked at me, smiled & accepts the note. The next day, she appeared & passes me a note and left.

It read, "Leaf’s heart is too heavy and wind couldn’t blow her away."

"It’s not that leaf heart is too heavy. It because leaf never want to leave tree." I replied her note with this statement and slowly she started to talk to me & accept my presents & phone calls. I know that the person she loves is not me. But I have this perseverance that one day I will make her like me. Within 4 months, I have declared my love for her no less than 20 times. Every time, she will divert away from the topic. But I never give up. If I decide I want her to be mine, I will definitely use all means to win her over. I can’t remember how many times I have declared my love to her. Although I know, she will try to divert but I still bear a small ray of hope.

Hoping that she will agree to be my girlfriend. I didn’t hear any reply from her over the phone. I asked, "What are you doing? How come you didn’t want to reply?" She said, "I’m nodding my head". "Ah?" I couldn’t believe my ears. "I’m nodding my head" She replied loudly. I hang up the phone, quickly changed and took a taxi and rush to her place & press her doorbell. During the moment when she opens the door, I hugged her tightly.

Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn’t ask her to stay…

Moral
_____________________

In love, we win very rarely, but when love is true, even if you lose, you still win just for having the tingle of loving someone more than you love yourself. There comes a time when we stop loving someone, not because that person has stopped loving us but because we have found out that, they’d be happier if we let go….

Why do we close our eyes when we sleep? When we cry? When we imagine? When we kiss? This is because THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THINGS IN THE WORLD ARE UNSEEN.

There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind, but keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world.
It’s the beginning of a new life. Happiness lies for those who cry those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried. For only they can appreciate the importance of the people who have touched our
lives.

A great love? It’s when you shed tears and still you care for them, it’s when they ignore you and still you long for them. It’s when they begin to love another and yet you smile and say, "I’m happy for you." If love fails, set yourself free, let your heart spread its wings and fly again. Remember you may find love and lose it, but when love dies, you never have to die with it.

The strongest people are not those who always win but those who stand back up when they fall. Somehow, along the course of life, you learn about yourself and realize that there should never be regrets, only a lifelong appreciation of the choices you’ve made. Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive, not how you listen but how you understand, not what you see but how you feel, and not how you let go but how you hold on.

It’s more dangerous to weep inwardly rather than outwardly. Outward tears can be wiped away while secret tears scar forever…

It’s best to wait for the one you want than settle for one that’s available. It’s best to wait for the right one because life is too short to waste on just someone.

btw here some link ya’ll can go n check..

http://www.1millionlovemessages.com/

tolong laa kejut ek…

p/s :- sedey sgt nak post lirik betul nyer…