Atria’s Rendezvous

Green Day - Nice Guys Finish Last

Nice guys finish last.
You’re running out of gas.

Your sympathy will get you left behind.
Sometimes you’re at your best, when you feel the worst.
Do you feel washed up, like piss going down the drain

Pressure cooker pick my brain and tell me I’m insane.
I’m so fucking happy I could cry.

Every joke can have its truth and now the joke’s on you.
I never knew you were such a funny guy.

Oh nice guys finish last, when you are the outcast.
Don’t pat yourself on the back you might break your spine.

Living on command.
You’re shaking lots of hands.
Kissing up and bleeding all your trust, taking what you need.
Bite the hand that feeds.
You lose your memory and you got no shame.

I don’t know there is such a song…so after finding the song…i found an article..cannot say article…it is rather more to the an expression of anger and frustration…

quoted from here .

It’s amazing that assholes can get girls.  Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing.  They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love.  

IT’S A CHARADE.  

They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after.  Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the assholeis really nice inside.  The girl tries to change the asshole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes.  She gets upset and goes to thenice guy to complain about the asshole.  But she claims to love the asshole… now this is where the theory begins.  She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the asshole right away, instead she will stay with the asshole.  Girls are idiots.  They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along.  He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that.  However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another.  They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their asshole boyfriend.  

But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve.  He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along.  The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keepslistening.  Since girls get attached to things thatpay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend.  A FRIEND.  They don’t say, “Oh he’s hot” or “I want to have his children” about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support.  When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the asshole.  The nice guy gets the shit end of the stick while the asshole gets all the action.  I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action…  I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department.  

Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the asshole is because assholes ignore the girl they are with.  The women wonder, “Why isn’t he paying attention to me?” so they explore why.  They poke and prod and get closer to the asshole.  They startto get easier with each attempt to get closer.  The asshole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass”.  It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an asshole.

Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a “listener” you can’t turn back.  The girl will always go after the assholes because there are always nice guys there to listen.  Once you realizethat you are a “listener” you cant do anything aboutit… just pack up and close shop.  There is no way you will get into her pants… ever.  There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on.  It just doesn’t worklike that.  The girl wont “come to her senses” and realize what an asshole her boyfriend is like in the movies… instead she will just go after another asshole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you.  Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world.  Right.  They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!!  Girls aren’t looking for nice guys… they say they are but they’re not.  They are looking for the perfect asshole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect asshole.

All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft.  To all thegirls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look next to you.  The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for.  He is what you want your asshole to be like.  He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all.

So after reading this Mr. Nice guy..don't be depressed and demotivated the world still need you..you doing a big charity to the others..and you did it for no charge at all..

"It always happen when you least expect it?"

ever heard of that phrase ? i think that what we can say best to the Mr. Nice Guy...just live your life to fullest...the moments will come sooner or later..

so Mr. Nice Guy..be smart..be a Smart Mr. Nice Guy..not the Dumb Mr. Nice Guy..and sure you will find yournice girl..

a quick one b4 go to work…i got this while do some blog hopping…hihih…

Tree

People call me "Tree".

I had dated 5 girls when I was in Pre-U. There is one girl who I love alot but never dared to go after. She didn’t have a pretty face, good figure or an outstanding charm. She was just a very ordinary girl. I liked her. I really liked her. I liked her innocence, her frankness, her intelligence and her fragility. Reason for not going after her was that I felt somebody so ordinary like her was not a good match for me. I was also afraid that after we were together all the feelings would vanish. I was also afraid other’s gossip would hurt her.

I felt that if she were my girl, she’d be mine ultimately & I didn’t have to give up everything just for her. The last reason, made her accompanying me for 3 years. She watched me chase other girls, and I have made her heart cry for 3 years. She was a good actor, and me a demanding director. When I kissed my second girlfriend, she bumped into us. She was embarrassed but smiled & said, "Go on!" before running off.The next day, her eyes were swollen like a walnut. I did not want to know what caused her to cry. Later that day, I returned from soccer training to get something & watched her cry in the classroom for an hour or so. My fourth girlfriend did not like her.There was once when both of them quarreled. I know that based on her character she is not the type that will start the quarrel. However, I still sided my girlfriend. I shouted at her & ignored her feelings and walked off with my girlfriend. The next day, she was laughing & joking with me like nothing happened. I know she was hurt but she did not know deep down inside I was hurt too.

When I broke up with my fifth girlfriend, I asked her out. Later that day, I told her I had something to tell her. I told her about my breakup.Coincidentally, she has something to tell me too, about her getting together. I knew who the person was. His pursuit for her had been the talk of the School. I did not show her my heartache, just smiles & best wishes.Once I reached home, I could not breathe. Tears rolled & I broke down. How many times have I seen her cry for the man who did not acknowledge her presence?

During graduation, I read a SMS in my hp. It said, "Leaf’s departure is because of Wind’s pursuit. Or because Tree didn’t ask her to stay"

Leaf

People call me Leaf.

During the 3 years of Pre-U, I was on very close terms with a guy as buddy kind. However, when he had his first girlfriend, I learnt a feeling I never should have learnt - Jealousy. Sourness to the extreme limit. They were only together for 2 months. When they broke up, I hid my happiness. But after a month, he got together with another girl.

I liked him & I know he liked me. But why won’t he pursue me? Since he loves me why he didn’t he make the first move? Whenever he had a new girlfriend, my heart would hurt. After some time, I began to suspect that this was one-sided love. If he didn’t like me, why did he treat me so well? It’s beyond what you will normally do for a friend. I know his likes, his habits.But his feelings towards me I can never figure out. You can’t expect me a girl, to ask him. Despite that, I still wanted to be by his side. Care for him, accompany him, and love him. Hoping that one day, he will come to love me. Because of this, I waited for him. Sometimes, I wondered if I should continue waiting. The pain, the dilemma accompanied me for 3 years.

At the end of my 3rd year, a junior pursues me. Everyday he pursues me. He’s like the cool & gentle wind, trying to blow off a leaf from a tree. In the end, I realized that I wanted to give this wind a small footing in my heart. I know the wind will bring the leaf to a better land. Finally, leaf left the tree, but the tree only smiled & didn’t ask me to stay.

Leaf’s departure is because of Wind’s pursuit. Or cause Tree didn’t ask her to stay.

Wind

Because I like a girl called leaf. Because she’s so dependent on tree, so I have to be a gust of wind. A wind that will blow her away. When I first met her, it was 1 month after I was transferred to this new school. I saw a petite person looking at my seniors & me playing soccer. During ECA time, she will always be sitting there. Be it alone or with her friends, looking at him. When he talks with girls, there’s jealousy in her eyes. When he looked at her, there’s a smile in her eyes. Looking at her became my habit. Just like, she likes to look at him.

One day, she didn’t appear. I felt something missing. I can’t explain the feeling except it’s a kind of uneasiness. The senior was also not there as well. I went to their classroom, hid outside and saw my senior scolding her. Tears were in her eyes while he left. The next day, I saw her at her usual place, looking at him. I walked over and smiled to her. Took out a note & gave to her. She was surprised. She looked at me, smiled & accepts the note. The next day, she appeared & passes me a note and left.

It read, "Leaf’s heart is too heavy and wind couldn’t blow her away."

"It’s not that leaf heart is too heavy. It because leaf never want to leave tree." I replied her note with this statement and slowly she started to talk to me & accept my presents & phone calls. I know that the person she loves is not me. But I have this perseverance that one day I will make her like me. Within 4 months, I have declared my love for her no less than 20 times. Every time, she will divert away from the topic. But I never give up. If I decide I want her to be mine, I will definitely use all means to win her over. I can’t remember how many times I have declared my love to her. Although I know, she will try to divert but I still bear a small ray of hope.

Hoping that she will agree to be my girlfriend. I didn’t hear any reply from her over the phone. I asked, "What are you doing? How come you didn’t want to reply?" She said, "I’m nodding my head". "Ah?" I couldn’t believe my ears. "I’m nodding my head" She replied loudly. I hang up the phone, quickly changed and took a taxi and rush to her place & press her doorbell. During the moment when she opens the door, I hugged her tightly.

Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn’t ask her to stay…

Moral
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In love, we win very rarely, but when love is true, even if you lose, you still win just for having the tingle of loving someone more than you love yourself. There comes a time when we stop loving someone, not because that person has stopped loving us but because we have found out that, they’d be happier if we let go….

Why do we close our eyes when we sleep? When we cry? When we imagine? When we kiss? This is because THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THINGS IN THE WORLD ARE UNSEEN.

There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind, but keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world.
It’s the beginning of a new life. Happiness lies for those who cry those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried. For only they can appreciate the importance of the people who have touched our
lives.

A great love? It’s when you shed tears and still you care for them, it’s when they ignore you and still you long for them. It’s when they begin to love another and yet you smile and say, "I’m happy for you." If love fails, set yourself free, let your heart spread its wings and fly again. Remember you may find love and lose it, but when love dies, you never have to die with it.

The strongest people are not those who always win but those who stand back up when they fall. Somehow, along the course of life, you learn about yourself and realize that there should never be regrets, only a lifelong appreciation of the choices you’ve made. Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive, not how you listen but how you understand, not what you see but how you feel, and not how you let go but how you hold on.

It’s more dangerous to weep inwardly rather than outwardly. Outward tears can be wiped away while secret tears scar forever…

It’s best to wait for the one you want than settle for one that’s available. It’s best to wait for the right one because life is too short to waste on just someone.

btw here some link ya’ll can go n check..

http://www.1millionlovemessages.com/

tolong laa kejut ek…

p/s :- sedey sgt nak post lirik betul nyer…

for the sake of human being..please make ur decision please…

original or spicy ?

left or right ?

blue or black ?

continue or give up ?

in or out ?

stay or go ?

speak up or shut up ?

original or pirate ? (hahahhahah)

ok, some choices i think easily pick up by all of us in our daily life…we usually stumbled upon this kindda of situation where we need to decide…easy as it sound..sometimes it can get really had to make the decision…even there is two choice for u to choose…hell even 2 already put u half crazy..wait till i add another one to you choice…or maybe 10….maybe u run like crazy and jumping jack all around…

i learn that in life u cannot regret too much of everything u do…if u do..u tend to pull ur self back from the world…usually regret happened for the choice we’ve made in the past…we donno what we think at that time…and we thought we do know what we think at that time…but actually we donno…then we make a decision at that time that we believe to be the best, based on the thinking that u are really making the right decision…but how come u know u doing the right decision or not ??…haaa….u know when it come to the point u regret u making that point…then u realize..u should pick the other option…

hmmm…that it really feel like…damnnn…i really f*cked up…

i know it easy to say then doing it…but u really need to try…why u make u self terrible thinking of the decision u once made…??s**t already happened…if u don’t move one…then u going to really f*ck ur future up high…with u holding back on the world…u would have difficult time later on in making other decision that will come to u..let the past be a lesson to u…

coz when the time come…please..please…do make ur decision…

Doesn’t this picture look awesome ? (But if you look closely…it doesn’t look that really awesome…but hey..it paris..paris will be paris aite..)

so how’s life lately..??

ok laa..since i start the training for job opportunity in Skali..so it’s going to be a 3 month training…taining just to prepare me for the next interview..and the chance are 1 out of 10 will be absorb into Skali…so let do the math..now we got 21 people undergo the training..if base on the fact…only 2 will be pick…so how about the rest..??

how people can be so judgmental..and do conclusion just with few questions or looks…(waa…u think phys aa u…??)

u in a group of people…where the also a group of woman..female..and then..come one guy asking me..seeing all this girls…don’t u have any feeling or crush on any of them..??i turn around..WTF…crazy or waattt…ooo please man…so i answered "Nope.."…so ok…then came another wise man come with a good question…"so..are u engaged..??"…ok laa..mean people try to cut out all the possibilities..i understand..so again i answered.."Nope…"..so everybody seem to satisfy..but i was wrong..mean..human are made to be curious…that is why we can see people having HIV…aper lagi ek…??let me think…ooo…the creation of atom bomb…yaa i know..for defense..but there a people how a curious…what are the result of the bomb..so let go and try to put this bomb into action…ooo…how about japan..???woo..how crazy people that day…please…please think before u act…ok..so where are we..???oo…the next question…the one million dollar question.."ehemm…so actually u like man or woman..???"ok…this is way beyond talk in mamak stall ok…u think i’m gay…WTF man…u donno me man…i know he just curious..but i just don’t like how he ask..think..and look when he came out with the "brilliant" question…so i’m cool..i just say.."Nope.."

so i’m done here…

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